Sex education is famously, sorely lacking in the United States, and queer-specific information is even harder to come by. While we were all kind of stunned to discover our gaping collective blind spot, maybe we shouldn’t have been. This group of women, who keep Narcan and Plan B on hand in case of emergency, was stumped. Suddenly, we were a group of bisexual women in our late 20s, looking at each other, realizing that we actually had no idea what “safe sex” looks like between two (or more) people with vulvas. The person in question, of course, did not have a dick.